Tuesday, July 3, 2012

FACTORS THAT CAUSE DELAY FOR SINGLES TO MARRY


Single 4 marriage       
Factors that cause delay  marriage.
I discovered that there are marriageable singles beyond imagination allover the places that are not marry. You  can not real identify reason for not yet marry.They are men in their 30s and ladies in late 20s and above. It is not normal but common social challenge in town. What could cause late marriage? Why should a potential husband,with a secured work,living in personal apartment and still single?
There are copious contributing factors,although marriage is God initiative for man to live a full  life. He saw  needs in man that attract companion of his kind to maximize life. I think everyone that want to  fulfill in life should has interest in marriage.  They  should  enroll into this legal and ancient institution on time to see other side of life instead,they are running away from it with the following points.
Wrong timing:God is a purpose-driven  God. He  has plan for everyone on earth. According  to his plan,there is  time to do everything in life, marriage inclusive. The beauty of thing is in its time. Many do not get  their time for marriage. Some have missed the right time.some attempt it when it is not time but no result.it is not your time but his that count.
 Location is a vital factor in getting marriage. Are you not confused on where to get your spouse? You need understanding of  the boundary where to marry.many  has been victim of wrong location that has cause wasted efforts  and time.when it was time for Jacob to marriage,he was sent to the place where to marry. There are marriageable people that are battle in this area.
Victim of civilization.surprise,civilization has made the world a global village.you can access million people from  your corner of your room. You can be engaged to more than a person at a time.when you need to settle for union there will be more headache because there can not be two people with the same character. No perfect person  in the world.civilization put many  on the fence at junction of making decision.sexual intercourse with person before wedding  is allow in a civilized setting.Marriage institution was established at “innocent age”but  men are seem wiser than the creator now.
Fear of unknown has kept man  away from marriage. They do not want to make mistake.Marriage is called secret market,they never take step of faith. They  do not want to experience the rough life like  what is in neighbors marriage. They never  search for God's principle for blissful home instead human opinion . fear  come by hearing and hearing the people's word. You need to stop  listen to people perspective on marriage and follow God's word,if you want to enjoy divine support.to be continue
Lack of self development is another factor to correct if you don't want to experience late marriage.Many are spiritually and mentally immature to identify right spouse let alone to handle a blissful relationship.They look mature by appearance but not psychologically. They are parading their weakness instead of their strength.

A bitter root will produce bitter fruit. There is need for you to analysis your background concept in order to delete wrong traits. It is easy to conform to environment which we grow from. We need to submit to divine light to exposure our shortcoming and transformation. We build bad habit as result of regular exposure to negative thing. How would you correct wrong habit?

We inherit curse from our parents. I have seen family of six,none marry at their 30s.it was the last born that break the jinx at 29,because her associates.They have different perspective and encourag
e her to marry.She needs  extra grace and wisdom to enjoy blissful union. Association also contribute to late marriage. You can not but absorb something from every associates.if you want to break single hood,you should mind your friends.if all your friends are playboys and ghetto girls,you will not see reason to marry on time. Do not be discouraged  by your present situation to jeopardize your future.your future is more real than the present circumstance. Life is in season,you need to understand that every season has duration. You need  faith to accomplish something in life.if you are struggle to marry,check your faith.there is need to increase it. Get marry at right time with right person help you to fulfill  your assignment in life.Many fulfilled people in the society married when its not sensible to do, they handle the situation and master it.extracted from youth tonic magazine

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